aşağıda, inşallah olur,

<object classid="clsid27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000" codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=6,0,29,0" width="500" height="400">
<param name="movie" value="<?php echo $fileurl; ?>">
<param name="quality" value="High">
<param name="menu" value="false">
<embed src="<?php echo $fileurl; ?>" width=500" height="400" quality="High" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" wmode="transparent"></embed>

yani adres şu; http://www.youtube.com/v/kod
</object>