Gridin CellDoubleClick eventine
private void GrdTum_CellDoubleClick(object sender, DataGridViewCellEventArgs e)
{
string rownum = GrdTum.CurrentRow.Cells["Id"].Value.ToString();
}seklınde kullana bilirsin yada bir ContextMenuStrip atıp
private void GrdTum_RowContextMenuStripNeeded(object sender, DataGridViewRowContextMenuStripNeededEventArgs e)
{
e.ContextMenuStrip = contextMenuStrip1;
rownum =GrdTum.CurrentRow.Cells["Id"].Value.ToString();
}seklındede alabilirsin