valla sorunu kendim çözdüm ihtiyacı olan olur belki:

<?php
	if(isset($_POST['submit'])) {
		$ad_soyad = mysql_real_escape_string($_POST['ad_soyad']);
		$eposta = mysql_real_escape_string($_POST['eposta']);
		$telefon = mysql_real_escape_string($_POST['telefon']);
		$konu = mysql_real_escape_string($_POST['konu']);
		$mesaj = mysql_real_escape_string($_POST['mesaj']);
	if (empty($ad_soyad) || empty($eposta) || empty($telefon) || empty($konu) || empty($mesaj))
	{
		echo'
			<tr>
				<td width="273" colspan="3"><span style="font-weight:bold;color:red;">Lütfen Tüm Alanları Doldurun</span></td>
			</tr>';
	}elseif( $_SESSION['security_code'] == $_POST['security_code'] && !empty($_SESSION['security_code'] ) ){
	if (mysql_query("INSERT INTO iletisim (id,ad_soyad,eposta,telefon,konu,mesaj,okuma) VALUES ('0','$ad_soyad','$eposta','$telefon','$konu','$mesaj','0')"))
			{
$mail_konu	=	"İletişim - $ad_soyad";
$mail_adres	=	$satir['mail_email']; // Buraya e-postanin gonderilecegi mail adresini yaziniz
date_default_timezone_set('Europe/Istanbul');
$mail_tarih	=	date('Y-m-d');
$mail_ip		=	$_SERVER['REMOTE_ADDR'];

$mesajveri.="1 İletişim Formu Mesajı Aldınız<br/><br/>";
$mesajveri.="<b>Ad Soyad:</b>   ".$ad_soyad."<br/>";
$mesajveri.="<b>E-Posta Adresi:</b>   ".$eposta."<br/>";
$mesajveri.="<b>Telefon:</b>   ".$telefon."<br/>";
$mesajveri.="<b>Konu:</b>   ".$konu."<br/>";
$mesajveri.="<b>Mesaj:</b>   ".$mesaj."<br/>";
$mesajveri.="<b>Tarih:</b>   ".$mail_tarih."<br/>";
$mesajveri.="<b>IP Adresi:</b>  ".$mail_ip."<br/>";
$mesajveri.='<br/><div><b><font size="1" face="Verdana">Bu e-posta <a href="http://www.burtinet.com/">BurtiNET</a> Sunucuları kullanılmadan kendi sisteminiz üzerinden gönderilmiştir.</font></b></div>';
$mesajyolla = mail($mail_adres, $mail_konu, $mesajveri, "Content-type: text/html; charset=utf-8\r\n");
				echo'<tr><td width="273" colspan="3"><span style="font-weight:bold;color:blue;">Mesajınız başarıyla kaydedildi.</span></td></tr>';
			}else{
				echo "<b>Hata:</b> ",mysql_error();
				}
unset($_SESSION['security_code']);
   }else{
 		echo'
			<tr>
				<td width="273" colspan="3"><span style="font-weight:bold;color:red;">Güvenlik Kodu Hatalı!</span></td>
			</tr>';

   }}
?>
<style type="text/css">
<!--
body {
	margin-left: 0px;
	margin-top: 0px;
	margin-right: 0px;
	margin-bottom: 0px;
}
.style1 {
	color: #850707;
	font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;
	font-size: 12px;
	font-weight: bold;
}
.style2 {
	color: #406b9b;
	font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;
	font-size: 12px;
	font-weight: bold;
}
-->
</style>

<div class="baslik">İletişim Formu</div>
<div class="hr"></div>
  

<table style="float:left; margin-top:20px;" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="3" >
<tr>
<td colspan="3"><span style="font-size:14px;font-weight:bold;">Site Başlığı</span></td>
</tr>

<tr>
<td width="51"><span style="font-weight:bold;">Adres</span></td>
<td width="3">:</td> 
<td width="316"><? echo $satir['adres']; ?></td>
</tr>

<tr>
<td><span style="font-weight:bold;">Telefon</span></td>
<td>:</td>
<td><?=stripslashes($satir['telefon1'])?></td>
</tr>

<tr>
<td><span style="font-weight:bold;">Telefon(2)</span></td>
<td>:</td>
<td><?=stripslashes($satir['telefon2'])?></td>
</tr>

<tr>
<td><span style="font-weight:bold;">Fax</span></td>
<td>:</td>
<td><?=stripslashes($satir['fax'])?></td>
</tr>

<tr>
<td><span style="font-weight:bold;">E-Mail</span></td>
<td>:</td>
<td><?=stripslashes($satir['email'])?></td>
</tr>


</table>




<form id="form1" name="form1" method="post" action="">
<table width="400px" border="0" cellspacing="3" cellpadding="3" style="float:right;margin-top:10px;">
    
 
	 
    <tr>
<td colspan="3"><span style="font-size:14px;font-weight:bold;">İletişim Formu</span></td>
</tr>

<tr>
  <td width="40%"><span class="style1">Adınız Soyadınız </span></td>
  <td width="0%" class="style1">&nbsp;</td>
  <td width="60%"><input name="ad_soyad" type="text" style="border-left:solid 1px #000066; border-right:solid 1px #000066; border-top:solid 1px #000066; border-bottom:solid 1px #000066; background-color:#fff; color:#000; width:200px;" value="" /></td>
</tr>
    <tr>
      <td class="style1">E-Posta Adresiniz </td>
      <td class="style1">&nbsp;</td>
      <td><input name="eposta" type="text" style="border-left:solid 1px #000066; border-right:solid 1px #000066; border-top:solid 1px #000066; border-bottom:solid 1px #000066;#000066; background-color:#fff; color:#000; width:200px;" value="" /></td>
    </tr>
    <tr>
      <td class="style1">Telefon Numaranız </td>
      <td class="style1">&nbsp;</td>
      <td><input name="telefon" type="text" style="border-left:solid 1px #000066; border-right:solid 1px #000066; border-top:solid 1px #000066; border-bottom:solid 1px #000066;; background-color:#fff; color:#000; width:200px;" value="" /></td>
    </tr>
    
    <tr>
      <td class="style1">Konu</td>
      <td class="style1">&nbsp;</td>
      <td><input name="konu" type="text" style="border-left:solid 1px #000066; border-right:solid 1px #000066; border-top:solid 1px #000066; border-bottom:solid 1px #000066;; background-color:#fff; color:#000; width:200px; " value="" /></td>
    </tr>
    
    
    <tr>
      <td class="style1" style="vertical-align:top;">Mesajınız</td>
      <td class="style1">&nbsp;</td>
      <td><textarea name="mesaj" rows="5" id="mesaj"  style="border-left:solid 1px #000066; border-right:solid 1px #000066; border-top:solid 1px #000066; border-bottom:solid 1px #000066;; background-color:#fff; width:200px"></textarea></td>
    </tr>
    <tr>
      <td class="style1">Güvenlik Kodu</td>
      <td class="style1">&nbsp;</td>
      <td><img src="CaptchaSecurityImages.php?width=200&amp;height=80&amp;characters=5" /><br /></td>
    </tr>
    <tr>
      <td class="style1">Güvenlik Kodunu Giriniz</td>
      <td class="style1">&nbsp;</td>
      <td><input name="security_code" type="text" style="border-left:solid 1px #000066; border-right:solid 1px #000066; border-top:solid 1px #000066; border-bottom:solid 1px #000066; width:200px; color:#000" /></td>
    </tr>

    <tr>
      <td colspan="2">&nbsp;</td>
      <td><input type="submit" name="Submit" value="G&ouml;nder" style="border-left:solid 1px #000066; border-right:solid 1px #000066; border-top:solid 1px #000066; border-bottom:solid 1px #000066;; background-color:#3E6B93; color:#FFFFFF " />
      <input name="submit" type="hidden" id="send" value="ok" /></td>
    </tr>
  </table>
</form>